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Time Wasn't the Issue

4/25/2020

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Picture Neighbor's Mailbox Decor
I've been reading a lot this past month or so. The luxury of being able to just sit and read - novels and periodicals, educational content and junk food for the mind - is making me feel a bit pressured. I should be doing my own writing. In truth, I should be doing a lot of things, those things that I've been adding for over a decade to my when-I-have-time list. Clearly time wasn't ever the issue. 

It's not that I've totally wasted the hours of stay-in-place living. On my daily walks I take photos of things that make me smile, like a neighbor's mailbox decor. (I know I'll do something with those photos. Someday.) I've upped practicing my yoga moves to six days a week, thanks to online opportunities, and invested more time into Scripture studies. The Gman is getting home-cooked meals - literally cooked in our home - and the dog hair gets vacuumed up a bit more frequently. I've done video chatting instead of texting, hosted a couple of social distancing porch parties via Zoom, and participated in an online paper arts class in an effort to light some dormant creative sparks. 

PictureGracie Modeling Her Collar
I do try to make a plan for each day, but it often derails. Our Corgi Gracie has been to the vet three times in recent weeks, plowing through her canine college savings in order to treat eye issues and have surgery on one of her paws. She hates her collar - "cone of shame" in the pet world - but passively accepts medicines and the protective plastic boot I fashioned out of snack baggies and tape for her potty outings. (Perhaps I'm not giving myself enough credit for creativity.) These little rituals associated with her recuperation add a new dimension to our regular furkid routines.

PictureKitchen View
And, as if our world isn't wonky enough, we are having our modular home re-sided (apparently contractors have extra time right now.) The ripping off of old siding along with the sawing and pounding that goes with prepping the walls for their new covering is teeth-gnashing, nerve-wracking background music which can't be escaped by driving to the local library, shopping plaza, or  

PictureBedroom View
coffee shop. Our walls are bare so the vibrations don't damage stuff hanging on them, and our windows are all covered with the vapor shield that hasn't yet been trimmed to fit. It's like living in an opaque plastic box. ​

Still, I can't help but admire those who are harnessing the energy of this enforced slowdown to move themselves - and us - to the next level. Shel Harrington, the Relationship Advocate moved beyond of her comfort level to do her first Facebook live broadcast. Topic? Moving beyond one's comfort level. Joshua Becker at Becoming Minimalist is offering a discounted course to help people utilize this time to pare down to what's important. (Minimalism is a concept I'm seriously attracted to these days.) RobinLK Studios is offering creative paper arts gatherings - previously done at locally owned coffee shops - through Zoom. 

PictureBirthday Parade Destination
Then there's those who just find ways to bring out the enjoyment of everyday living. After our neighborhood pool was closed, some 60 and 70-somethings put on swimsuits and rigged up a garden hose to the lamppost in a front yard, fashioning a sprinkler of sorts they could run through to beat the Florida heat. This morning I spotted a vibrantly colored birthday greeting in a neighbor's yard. A few hours later, I heard lots of horn-beeping and ran outside (because my windows are all covered!) to see the lengthy birthday parade of honking vehicles filled with people waving balloons and signs. Delightful!

Maybe I need to rethink those things I've been wanting to do "when I have time."  Maybe what I really want to do when I have time is read and notice things around the neighborhood that make me smile and look at friends' faces when I talk to them from a social distance. And maybe - occasionally - write.

14 Comments
Bejh Clark
4/25/2020 08:10:32 pm

I love this. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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Natine
4/26/2020 09:24:55 am

Thank you, Beth! It actually felt kind of good to sort through all the words in my head and get them out there!

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Ginny
4/25/2020 09:34:35 pm

Natine, you always inspire me. You’re right,sometimes it’s the little things that turn out to be the most important things.

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Natine
4/26/2020 09:26:02 am

And that's why we are friends! HAHAHA...And I'm ready to begin our next joint venture -- let's pick that study!

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Leona
4/26/2020 10:01:55 am

That was Inspiring Natine , thks for sharing , it will be nice to see your new house,,,, take care , and be safe,,,,,

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Natine
4/26/2020 11:13:04 am

Missing you here, Leona. Hoping you’ll still be able to return as planned in the fall! 😊

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Thelma A Brennan link
4/26/2020 11:03:14 am

Loved reading your news this morning and miss our visits and chats love to George and the family ... Please include a visit to your Canadian Family when you come north this summer ... Love Ann B

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Natine
4/26/2020 11:15:42 am

Awww, thank you, Ann! Of course we have no travel plans at this time, but we ARE hoping to get up north this year! I’ll let you know. I hope you are are feeling safe and healthy! 🤗😷😁

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Cheryl B Henry
4/26/2020 12:42:36 pm

oh you do have a way with words!! thank you for the sanity you bring with them.

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Natine
4/26/2020 07:07:00 pm

Thanks, Cheryl! Not sure about the sanity part, though 😆😅🤪😷

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Shel link
4/26/2020 05:42:07 pm

Loved this piece (tweeted it to my FBF site) - I can totally relate to the blush-worthy epiphany that it's not a time issue, it's a me issue. And thanks for the mention - taking a risk to get outside my comfort zone and having things get screwed up, was just the bit of empowerment I needed to never have to worry about that "but what if . . . ?" question again, lol.

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Natine
4/26/2020 07:12:29 pm

Thanks, Shel! And thanks for putting it out there. It’s kind of comforting to find out others relate to this phenomena 😆🤣😅😷

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RobinLK link
4/28/2020 04:46:46 pm

Loved it, Natine. Yes, we are all using this time in such different ways. I love that your joyful neighbors have found creative ways to stay connected... what a beautiful thing. :) I recently wrote about similar thoughts... how this time is defining in some ways... XO... Robin

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Natine
5/2/2020 04:53:44 pm

Since I wrote this, Rob, I'm spending a lot of time thinking about simplifying...hahahaha

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